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Noise

Being a mommy in a world where almost everyone around will be there to tell you that "you're way of parenting is wrong" , is not easy. Almost every mom experience this kind of shaming. And your heart won't let you do things, that makes perfect sense in your head .  So you will end up doing things that the world around, suggests you. Sometime they are right but sometimes they are not. Being a mommy what a women needs the most is, "trusting her gut feeling, instead of feeling guilty". Remember that, there is no universal rules and standards of parenting in this world. You and your child is a unique duo in this world. From your finger tips to the chemistry of your brain and from your heart to your soul, you are unique in every way. So first of all embrace being unique...listen to whoever is there to guide you, but do what you "feel" is good for you and your kid. Be it nutrition, education or health. That constant feeling of "being not a good mom...
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Sleep and Shine

 Sleep and Shine As a mother, the 2 things that every mother is concerned about are: Nutrition Sleep Nutrition is something that we normally manage some how. Not just the mother, everyone in the house will be Keen to feed the baby. Or at least they will remind mommy about that. We consider food as the only thing that will make our babies healthy mentally and physically. But sleep is equally important as nutrition or food is. It has very solid effects on mental and physical growth of not just a child, but every human being. Following a sleeping pattern is important. If you follow a proper bed time routine then it can help you in strengthening your bond with your kid. And ample sleep time helps us to get a more relaxed mind and body. That in turn helps in learning and growing. I remember, first 1 and a half month was really difficult for me as a first time mommy.. I couldn't get enough sleep, not just because if the baby, but because of the fears that this motherhood brought for me. ...
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Being Mommy

So being a conscious mommy, there were things that I deliberately did for my daughter. There were things that I thought will benefit her in long term, but then there were few things that were stuck in my head just because that's how I experienced/spent life, as a kid. I was not sure if they were good or bad for her. But there are things in everyone's life, that we are stuck with, just because we saw our parents doing that. So even if we don't rate them highly, we still are unable to get them out of our heads .So when the journey of motherhood started 4 years back, I experienced everything like that too. There were things that were wrong according to my understanding and knowledge, but getting myself out of them was kind of a struggle. . Sending her for regular schooling or keeping her at home for home schooling was one of those decisions. I knew that it will be good for her if I will do it right, but I was not sure that if it will be good for me as an individual or not. I ...
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